I wanted to draft my reflections on the reunion that I just came out of and in the process renew my blogspot that has been dormant since covid hit us.
The Mask : More than decision on what outfits to pack that shows me younger than I am, the bigger one was the decision on what “mask” I should wear! What image I should create amongst my batch mates – Successful Technologist, Happy Soul, Great Communicator etc., the typical masks we wear to work. After some deliberation, I fixated on going mask-free as it is judgement free zone of Pilani campus I am marching towards. This is the group of people who have seen me in most vulnerable position and most immature phase of life already, there is really no need of wearing a mask to be honest.
Ice Breaking: Given the
introvertial traits I carry, getting back to the gang of 200+ people was never
easy. This is one thing extroverts struggle to understand “what is wrong with
introverts” 😊 Even with in gults, I was not in constant
touch with many with a notable exception of the 2-3 closest buddies. I had a sinking feeling in stomach, mulling
over questions like what if none of them remember me, what if no one is able to
reconnect with me, what if I am loner who has to push along 6 days with great
effort!! To be fair, my brain is pretty
logical given the low key life I maintained at Pilani and after. I was proved wrong on all these counts the
moment I landed with the group, same warmth, accommodation and love despite long gap of two decades.
I embarked on a train journey with my gult friends, in Telangana
express that used to be AP express. They instantaneously connected with me and
showered warmth. 27 hours felt like 27 minutes with greetings, sharing personal
stories, playing card games, Dumb
Charades. Little did we realize that the
train ran more than 3 hours late, and completely engrossed with the gang.
Networking: What is
more interesting than to listen to life stories of friends, their successes and
learnings. It is inspiring and amazing to see the friends with whom we shared wing,
classes and campus make it big and earn name for the batch. It is equally distressing to know heartbreaks
some friends faced. While they coped with it and
became resilient and stronger through experience, they never deserved that pain in
first place. Overall, interactions made
me stay grounded in our life journey ahead.
Reconnection with C6-ites: Turn out in C6 is quite good given we are a small gang. We had utlized the opportuntity to share experiences and getting to know each other better. I am sure many of you would find it difficult to believe that I did not
speak a word with C6 girls, with whom we attended exclusive classes every sem, between
1998-2002. Not even a miniscule mistake
of theirs really, instead speaks volumes of the “shy”, “introverted”, “in a shell”
type of personality I carried along. When
we (re)connected last week, they were so generous, friendly and warm in
interactions, that left me wondering how
much I would have gained from their association had I mustered courage to speak
to them while in college.
Same vs Different: Campus
stayed the same in terms of its spirit while bringing technological and
infrastructure advances that are world-class.
Among similarities, the old hostel rooms, the vibrant FD1 & FD2, Serenity of the temple, the color of chairs in Audi, Sky lawns, IC carried
nostalgic memories of our campus life, bringing down our age from 40s to
teenage. Among the differences, the new age workshop, fantabulous library, amazing best-in class LTC, Rakesh Kapoor Innovation Center, beautiful infra
in and around Rotunda that let us wonder if it is same old Pilani.
Friends who couldn’t make it: There
are few friends I longed to meet on the occasion but unfortunately due to work
and personal commitments couldnot make it.
I will keep hoping to bump into them some other occasion soon. There are few friends who have left us teary
eyed to heavenly abode, whom we remembered during the event.
Rotunda side chat: I
really enjoyed opportunity to interact with those innocent souls in current
pursuing graduate students with high hopes and uncertainity of what life has in
store for them. Felt exactly like me (or us if I dare say) two decades earlier. They sounded bit more matured than we were at
that tender age. But we tried to answer
their questions as if we know all answers to life’s questions 😊. On topics like Biotech, Core Chemical Engineering,
we mustered courage to say that “we don’t know” and routed them to experts in
our batch on the subject.
Parties: Better said
by others than me, given I am coke/Juice candidate who cant draw as much from
parties as others. But I could clear see
the vibrant crowd enjoying every party and that’s truly contagious.
Farewell: It is
incomplete description without mention of organizing committee who has
undertaken this event with Super human efforts.
I came in with high expectations and they made sure it exceeded by huge
margin. Some groups had logistics challenges
along the way but like aways they all made it on time to flights beating the
odds. As we drew towards the closure, we all had heavy hearts and left with
renewed promises to stay in touch and frequent meeting at every opportunity
presented.
To end On a lighter note, a gult friend teased multiple times Shashank to give his message to the group “ à°œాà°¤ిà°¨ి ఉద్à°¦ేà°¶ింà°šి à°®ీ à°¸ంà°¦ేà°¶ం” and Shashank delivered a hell of a message on responsibility towards women at home that kept us grounded. Overall it was a great week for me, and potentially the best week in many years.